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Smeshque: Alas, how nice a day for mom and you!
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We had two good sermons today. This evening was about 
Luke 14:11
For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.

And how we should be humble.

And then applied in the characteristics of Haman and Mordecai in the book of Esther. It is a good story. True story. But I can read the book of Esther over and over and still love it. 

you should read it if you get a chance.

This mornings sermon was about how some church people can come across as self righteous and judgmental. This is true, I have seen it a lot in my lifetime. One reason I turned away from God at a point in my life, because I saw so much hypocrisy. But we are all sinners(sick) and the church is only meant to be nurses to bring and introduce other sick(sinners) to the great physician Jesus. 
But sometimes in the church the people make appearance that they are not sick(sinners), and look down on those who are. And that can turn away someone who is looking for Jesus and needs love and direction.
It is sad, Love is the answer to everything for God is love. And we must know that we all need Jesus in order for healing and salvation.

I hope and pray I never come across judgmental and self righteous. This is never my intent. I am a sinner as we all are. But I strive to do better in Jesus.
And I need Jesus every hour, every second, everyday as everyone does, if not more.


Love and prayers to and for you all.
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Smeshque: Good points were made in your two sermons today.
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“For a day in thy courts is better than a thousand. I had rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God, than to dwell in the tents of wickedness.”
Psalms 84:10
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Sing a little louder
LOUDER THAN THE UNBELIEF!

Lyrics
I raise a hallelujah, in the presence of my enemies
I raise a hallelujah, louder than the unbelief
I raise a hallelujah, my weapon is a melody
I raise a hallelujah, heaven comes to fight for me
I'm gonna sing, in the middle of the storm
Louder and louder, you're gonna hear my praises roar
Up from the ashes, hope will arise
Death is defeated, the King is alive!
I raise a hallelujah, with everything inside of me
I raise a hallelujah, I will watch the darkness flee
I raise a hallelujah, in the middle of the mystery
I raise a hallelujah, fear you lost your hold on me!
I'm gonna sing, in the middle of the storm
Louder and louder, you're gonna hear my praises roar
Up from the ashes, hope will arise
Death is defeated, the King is alive!
Sing a little louder (In the presence of my enemies)
Sing a little louder (Louder than the unbelief)
Sing a little louder (My weapon is a melody)
Sing a little louder (Heaven comes to fight for me)
Sing a little louder (In the presence of my enemies)
Sing a little louder (Louder than the unbelief)
Sing a little louder (My weapon is a melody)
Sing a little louder (Heaven comes to fight for me)
Sing a little louder!
I'm gonna sing, in the middle of the storm
Louder and louder, you're gonna hear my praises roar
Up from the ashes, hope will arise
Death is defeated, the King is alive!
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Sendhelp,

My favorite hymn is How Great Thou Art.
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NHWM,
When I in awesome wonder,
that is also my favorite!
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A doorkeeper is likened to a pleasant ideology.💞💞💞💞💞
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I hope you all are well, i am having struggles right now. I know the Lord will see me through.
You all are in my prayers.


“But now, O LORD, thou art our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of thy hand.”
Isaiah 64:8
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Smeshque, may God give you overcoming strength and power to stand, to give thanks. I’m in a similar situation. Let’s put ourselves in the refuge of God’s kindness, love and comfort. ❤️
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Colossians 3:15: "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful."
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This year, I am celebrating the birth of my Lord, Jesus, on December 25th.
It does not matter if the date is accurate, a child was born who came to save the world! It's a boy! I choose Dec. 25th, because many believers will also be celebrating that day. There are 365 days in any year, and this is the day we choose.
I am not "WOKE", and do not want to be of that belief. If I am considered stupid or un-evolved for my beliefs, I expect that.

December 25th.
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I want to apologize for using the term : "woke" and not understanding it's meaning.
Apparently, the term has many meanings, and I was unaware. Or, in reality, still stupid.

I had asked my husband what is the terminology for someone who wants everyone else to be as "enlightened" as they believe they are, and promotes hate of anyone who is not like them, including hate of christians.

So, sorry. Whatever you believe "woke" to mean to you, I apologize.
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Send,

Knew how you meant it. No need to apologize.
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NHWM,
Not even sure how I meant it now.

But I am going to stop listening to my sister, who is promoting the sale of a tuning fork with (number escapes me) hz vibrations of healing properties online.

Last time she advised me to drink tons of celery juice, it did help me. (Half of the recommendation). However, I had no idea that it was a fad in Beverly Hills, e v e r y o n e was taking it! So, embarrassingly, I shared it here!
I only started to suspect something was not right when celery became unavailable in the markets.

So then, as a christian, I need to consider the source of the possible healing, according to the bible. Herbs, and even mud were used to heal. Jesus was accused of healing by the power of Beezlebub, and that was a bad thing.


Sis would hate me for saying that. Guess with different beliefs, my sister and I will not be getting along or associating anymore. It's sad, because I love her.

So, anyway, NHWM, if I did not know what I meant, how would you know?
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Send,

I only meant it concerning the gist of your remark. Sorry for any confusion. Was just saying that I respect your views. Everyone should be respectful of each other.

Yes, I agree you have to follow what you feel is best. What works for your sister may not be something that you choose to follow.

One of my neighbors puts a sign in their yard every year that says, “Keep Christ In Christmas.” You would think people would be used to it. She puts it up every year.

I walk past her house when I go for a morning walk. She told me earlier today that another neighbor asked her to take it down because it’s offensive to non believers.

I can’t say that I am surprised because nothing surprises me anymore but I don’t understand why it bothers her that she puts her sign up.

She has pretty lights and a pretty wreath on her door. She has a right to place her sign stating her beliefs as far as I am concerned. I think it’s sad for the other neighbor to ask her to remove it. She still has her sign on her lawn.

I don’t care if someone doesn’t believe. I just hate that they asked her to remove her sign.
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Oh yes. For decades, now. Eventually I learned, the hard way, so very many times, if I don't care for myself, I cannot care for others. I get irritated and angry and that helps no one. Once I learned that caregivers to family members can and do die before the care-ee him/herself -- I got the wakeup call. I have adjusted my expectations for what I expect from myself. I have made peace with my limitations.
I love angels, but I am not an angel. I can only do what I can do. It serves NO ONE if I die before the care-ee.

So, I do this...
(1) I ask for help from others, or I pay for help. Not easy for me to do.
(2) I still socialize - even for small moments w/a friend.
(3) Adjust my idea of what the best care is because everyone on our "team" disagrees. i.e. - Men have a very different idea of what quality care is for their mother than a woman's understanding and idea of quality care. If the best care for the sick one wipes me out, then I have to rest. It's making peace with reality of my own limitations. I don't like it, but it's very real and very important.

God made you, too and your life just as important as everyone else's life.

And remember, the bible is beautiful and great, but it was used to keep believers "in line". Modern interpretations insist that all of God's creatures deserve love and life. That includes you. ;-)
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Good evening all. I hope everyone is maintaining well.
My life has been turned upside down. But, God blesses me with strength, courage and moments of clarity.
I keep you all in my prayers.
I will catch up when I get caught up on some rest.
Mom is well, and AB is well, but there has been additions to our load.
DH and I are wiped out!
I love and miss you all, take good care. And always remember Jesus loves you!
God is Great.

“For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our confidence stedfast unto the end;”
Hebrews 3:14
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I could use some input on my seeking to loose weight.

My doctor has me reading The Daniel Plan to help me loose weight.

Its unique approach includes spiritual health which is good, but being on disability, I don't have a sense of God's purpose for my life like I once did.

My doctor does not like my idea of getting healthier just for its own sake, but at my age, I'm not looking for some new, big purpose. I just want to get healthier by taking better care of myself than I have been due to being so focused on taking care of others.

Another part of its approach is social health which calls for a small group to support and hold each other accountable. Sorry, I don't have a small group of friends like that.

Another part is mental health which I agree is important for your overall health, but I have bipolar, OCD, ADHD and depression. The book offers no help for those with a mental illness.

I do like the diet plan though. 1/2 plate of green vegetables, 1/4 healthy protein, 1/4 healthy carbs. I also like the focus on exercise which I will do once I get over this cough that I have had now for 11 weeks and I've seen the doctor twice about plus I've been using my nebulizer.
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Yoda,

Exercise does speed up metabolism and of course eating healthy is always good.

Do you feel like any of your meds may be contributing to your weight gain? I know some people who have said their meds caused weight gain.

If so, can you discuss it with your doctor? I realize you have to stay on your medication and I am not suggesting that you go off meds.

Best of luck to you.
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Hugs, Smeshque, praying for strength for you and that you are able to get some good rest.
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NeedhelpwithMom,

Thanks for responding.

Weight gain is a side effect of one medicine that I take. Feeling tired is. a side effect of four of my medicines. One med can cause weight loss and decreased appetite. A possible side effect of another medicine is decreased appetite.

No wonder I don't feel like exercising with 4 meds having the possible side effect of tiredness.
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Yoda,

Research has shown when someone feels tried all the time and/or get less than 6 hrs of sleep are more likely to gain weight.

I have found that if I exercise despite how I feel within a few weeks I don't feel so tried on a day-to-day basis.

I don't know if you have heard that drinking Papaya juice just shortly before you eat or just shortly after you eat will turn the food you just ate into much needed energy. It changes how your body metabolize food.

There are medications that will make a person's body not metabolize food properly into energy. And I bet you are taking one of those meds either for Bipolar or depression. Those meds has change the chemistry in your body that is not letting your body turn the food into energy that you need. I have no idea if I am making any sense! Anyways you could try it. Grapefruit juice is another one that can help a person to lose weight. Grapefruit can speed up a person metabolism and it also helps with getting rid for fatty foods. If you know what I mean. However, grapefruit can cause medications to not work properly especially with most Bipolar and anti-dependence; therefore please talk to your Dr before you drink grapefruit juice.

I would try the papaya juice. It worked for me.

I hope this helped:/




Smeshque, As always you are in my prayers. I hope you get the rest you need!

Hugs!!
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Shell38314,

I've not heard of  Papaya juice. I will look it up and see where to buy it.

You are right about grapefruit and grapefruit juice. That's a no no with my meds.
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sorry, repeat post
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My daughter has a second interview for her internship. Will all of you please say prayers for her? She just called and asked me to pray. I told her that I would continue praying for her.

Oh, her final exams are next week. One more prayer for that too please! I will be so glad when she graduates. GEAUX TIGERS! LSU is undefeated.

She’s nervous but excited too. Thanks everyone!

Always praying for you, Smeshque. You are our prayer warrior and we appreciate it so much 💗
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Yoda,

The ADHD meds can kill an appetite. Other meds do cause weight gain.

Can you start off small with exercise? Do some walking but also do some weight bearing exercises. Buy two pound weights for now then gradually increase the weight. Look up exercises on YouTube to get started and follow along.

Did you see that older lady on the news not long ago that kicked an attempted robbers butt? Hahaha, that robber picked the wrong person to rob! She is a body builder! She’s 82! She broke a table on him. She bench presses at the gym! She is amazing! Google her story. I saw her on the news.

Weight bearing exercises not only strengthen us but also speed up metabolism.

Cheering for you. GO YODA! 😊
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NoTry: I managed to lose a hard 40 # by eating McDonald's salads every night. I think that I had mentioned to you that I am inherited Hypothyroid from my late mother so the weight did NOT come off all at once. That's why I said "hard." My BMI is still too much.
NHWH: Good luck to your daughter.
Smeshque: Rest when you can, dear lady.
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Shell38314,

I asked my weight loss doctor about Papaya juice today. Her only question was about how it is sweetened and did it have some kind of oil in it as a sweetener.

Llamalover47,

Congratulations on your hard won weight loss.

NeedHelpWithMom,

Yes, I saw that story. It reminds me of how strong I was almost 20 years ago when I was in good enough shape and healthy enough to bench 315 pounds.

Thanks for the cheers!
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Yoda,

You were in good shape. That’s impressive!

You’ll get there. Be patient. Don’t starve yourself. It’s better to lose weight slowly.

What about a stationery bike?

Thanks, Llama.

I can’t believe my baby girl will be graduating this year!
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