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They are driving me CRAZY!!! So little Miss Me, decided to play the hero role and moved my Grandparents in. Worst mistake I’ve ever EVER made. They use to live 300 miles away. Grandpa was rushed to the ER for what ended up being a heart murmur and grandma was at home in the country alone. I panicked! Didn’t want them to be alone anymore. As grandpa got better, I moved them into my house. Cleaned up their 5acre house, sold it. Lots of work involved but I didn’t ask for a dime! My house was too small for both of them, my husband and 4 kids. We all agreed to looking for a bigger house. Found a house, loan was a bit much for my husband and I income so they suggested putting it under their name as long as I pay mortgage and utilities they will pay tax and insurance. Seem reasonable, done deal! Fast forward 1 year later, grandma is constantly accusing us of stealing her pills, $$, curtains, coins, paper etc. My poor kids are her target. They are thieves she says. They aren’t as innocent as you think she continues. I’m surprised your daughter hasn’t got raped by the amount of makeup on her face she added. If you guys don’t do your dishes, I will kick you out of MY HOUSE!!! I’m so drained and exhausted by her mood swings, memory loss and verbal abuse. Every week is a threat that she will sell the house and we need to get out. But I pay the bills!! My question is do I have any rights as a paying adult in this house since it’s under her and grandpas name? Can she really kick us out? How does this stand in court? What are my rights if I even have any? The thought of moving again is exhausting but dealing with her is insane. Grandpa is so much more healthy since living with us however he does and believe everything she says. How do I get her to see a professional on her mental illness when she thinks she’s fine? Too hard for me to handle on my own. I need your help. What do I do???
Laytay, I see from your profile that your Grandmother has Alzheimer's/Dementia, so the stealing pointing is all part of the disease, but it still can make a person being accused of stealing feel pretty bad.
May I suggest you and your husband make an appointment to see an Elder Law Attorney IMMEDIATELY to discuss this situation where you and hubby bought the house, but you had placed the Grandparent's names on the Deed instead of your own names.
Where is the money for the house and land sold where the grandparents had previously lived? Did the grandparents pay any part of the down-payment on the new house? Whatever the Attorney recommends, do it, even if it rattles your grandparents.
You really need to find some way to put the Deed into your names. Otherwise, it could become real complicated if either of your grandparents or both of them need to go into a skilled nursing home and have to use Medicaid [which is different from Medicare]. The Attorney will explain what would happen next.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
May I suggest you and your husband make an appointment to see an Elder Law Attorney IMMEDIATELY to discuss this situation where you and hubby bought the house, but you had placed the Grandparent's names on the Deed instead of your own names.
Where is the money for the house and land sold where the grandparents had previously lived? Did the grandparents pay any part of the down-payment on the new house? Whatever the Attorney recommends, do it, even if it rattles your grandparents.
You really need to find some way to put the Deed into your names. Otherwise, it could become real complicated if either of your grandparents or both of them need to go into a skilled nursing home and have to use Medicaid [which is different from Medicare]. The Attorney will explain what would happen next.