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You can not force someone to care for your mom.
You do not indicate what conditions your mom has that she requires care so I will plunge along with the assumption she has some form of dementia.
It is not a good idea to move someone with dementia as it can lead to more confusion.
If your mom has assets and you want to care for her use the assets to make it more comfortable for her in your home. Make it easier for you to care for her. Hire caregivers to give you a break. (2 or 3 times a week for 6 to 8 hours for example. As mom declines increase the hours and days a caregiver is there)
If you can not care for her for or do not want to care for her yourself then start looking for a facility that will fit her needs. Either Assisted Living if she can manage a bit now or look at Memory Care if she has dementia.

You can write any contract you want with any conditions you want and have it notarized but if the other person does not want to care for mom it is just a piece of paper that is meaningless.

I also suggest that you talk with an Elder Care Attorney to iron out legalities.
And if you are going to use moms assets to make changes to your home in order to care for her safely and properly that should be detailed so that there are no repercussions later and so that it would not effect application to medicaid if that is ever necessary.
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Caresplitin2020 Jun 2020
Thanks for your reply My Mother lives at home by herself now but has some difficulty managing and is extremely lonely I have had her at my home numerous times and already had her here for six months we had an agreement when it came time to go with my sibling she rented another apartment near me So my sister chipped in for her rent which both of always help with and decided those three months that were paid counts as her turn for three months so if hushed comes here again I’m not getting taken advantage again by sibling whose chose not to take there turn having her in their home for six months very disheartening ruined relationships several already
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