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Thank you for all your answers...to update on this situation. My Father died June 14, 2015. My step-mother wouldn't pay for his funeral - I did. She didn't even come to his funeral. He is at peace now and away from her. It was such a sad ending. But I have to think about how happy he must be now. I did get an attorney after she started calling me almost everyday leaving voice mail messages saying I was breaking into her house and stealing stuff, putting my finger in her cold cream, turning her candles upside down, etc....She would also leave messages - horrible messages about my Dad on my voicemail. She would say he is burning in Hell and he is waiting for me. I was almost to much to bare after losing him and listening to the messages with her talking so bad about him. So I filed a protective order. Went to court several times. Finally - the last time we went to court to see if the judge would grant protective services for me - my lawyer told the judge that I am not fearful for my life but I am for her. She is losing her mind and shouldn't be driving etc. The judge ordered her to get a mental eval. She got one - my attorney gave me copies of the eval and he said she shouldn't be driving nor caring for herself. Which I already knew. The judge also told her if she called me again she would be arrested. Thankfully - she hasn't called me in 9 months. But - she still hasn't gotten help. I told my attorney that my husband would step up and be her Guardian - he spoke w/ her attorney but we haven't heard back. I want to get her help but she has been so mean for so long to my Dad that I'm torn. So - I guess I will just wait and see what happens. But yes - the doctor said she was crazy - lost her mind -....It has been a year and 2 months since my Dad died - she thought it had been like 5 years ago. I was sad that she didn't even come to his funeral nor has she been to visit the grave...But she did get all of his money and that is all she cared about. I do believe what comes around goes around. I just want to thank all of you for all of your comments.
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Whew! I hope she doesn't bother you anymore. She sounds a bit crazy to start with. Add in a little age, dementia, and stubborness, it can look like pure evil.

I hope your father is resting under a beach umbrella in the heavenly version of Hawaii. He earned it. I am sorry that you lost him. I admire that you were able to stick by him while tolerating such abuse from his wife. He'll probably save you a seat at his cabana when it's time. ((((Hugs))))
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Mammabear1970 please take he driving abilty i was hit head on on my motorcycle almost killed my wife if she is not remembering she shouldnt be driving i know its hard dad was a 30 yr teamestwr an i took his for her safty an people like me an my wife please get her off the rd
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Mamabear - okay, maybe it's too soon for you and I'm apologizing if I'm being insensitive. But - sticking your finger in her coldcream, that's too funny. On a more serious note - you did the best you could for your father - you're a good daughter!
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