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Nothing looks familiar so he wants to go home to where it does. Unfortunately, that's usually going back in time, which you can't do, to a place that no longer exists. It's sad.
Mthr did a lot of waiting on the bus inside her memory care facility. She'd be up with her bag at 4:40 am, and the staff would tell her the bus was delayed. About 8, at shift change, someone new would tell her the bus broke down and it wouldn't be there today. They'd keep telling her that when she asked, and they'd take her back to her room and suggest she unpack, take a nap while she waited, or whatever, in her room that she did not realize was her room.
Just play along with his reality. It's not what we see that matters, it's how he feels about what he sees. Tell him to be patient, that his ride will be there someday, but not today. It's ok to tell this story since his broken brain is lying to him and you are trying to bring it back to complying with the rules of good behavior!
Does this happen in the evening? If so, you can use weather as an excuse...it's going to snow, rain heavily; thunderstorms are predicted, etc. And you don't want to take the chance of driving in nasty weather b/c of crazy drivers, or if there should be an accident and you'd be concerned about him.
You're sick tonight; but you can talk about leaving tomorrow.
You need to check the oil, antifreeze, tire pressure, etc., and need to do that in the daylight.
You'd like to stop and buy him breakfast and again, can't do that until morning.
The plan is if he's sundowning, put off the decision making until tomorrow and he'll likely have forgotten about it.
If he's not, can you drive him around to scenic places to distract and relax him? Or maybe go to a library, spend some time there, and return home. Or go to a man cave shop; wandering around Lowe's or HD tends to be very distracting and sometimes soothing.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Mthr did a lot of waiting on the bus inside her memory care facility. She'd be up with her bag at 4:40 am, and the staff would tell her the bus was delayed. About 8, at shift change, someone new would tell her the bus broke down and it wouldn't be there today. They'd keep telling her that when she asked, and they'd take her back to her room and suggest she unpack, take a nap while she waited, or whatever, in her room that she did not realize was her room.
Just play along with his reality. It's not what we see that matters, it's how he feels about what he sees. Tell him to be patient, that his ride will be there someday, but not today. It's ok to tell this story since his broken brain is lying to him and you are trying to bring it back to complying with the rules of good behavior!
You're sick tonight; but you can talk about leaving tomorrow.
You need to check the oil, antifreeze, tire pressure, etc., and need to do that in the daylight.
You'd like to stop and buy him breakfast and again, can't do that until morning.
The plan is if he's sundowning, put off the decision making until tomorrow and he'll likely have forgotten about it.
If he's not, can you drive him around to scenic places to distract and relax him? Or maybe go to a library, spend some time there, and return home. Or go to a man cave shop; wandering around Lowe's or HD tends to be very distracting and sometimes soothing.
https://www.helpforalzheimersfamilies.com/community-voices/your-questions-answered/why-mother-constantly-packs/
Good luck!