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The next time she says such a thing, tell her you're calling 911 to have her sent to the hospital for a psych evaluation. Then do so. For her sake as well as yours.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
Yes!
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I just started tape recording this week, because no one believes me. I played the tape for my uncle recently and he was shocked. He said present it to the doctor.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
Good!
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So, I can't seem to access your previous posts, but if I'm recalling correctly, your mom and her elderly sister live together. Your mother has been consistently abusive, verbally and otherwise throughout your life. And your mother tells untrue things to doctors, attempting to get you into trouble with the law.

You don't wish to cut contact because you wish to assist your Aunt.

Your mother's behavior is not "normal". It may be caused by life-long mental illness or it may be caused by the mental changed that come with dementia.

It is imperative that you protect yourself, both legally and psychologically from her onslaughts.

Finding a therapist who can show you how to do this is your primary task right now.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
Thanks! Yes!
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I was able to find one of sounhappy's posts

https://www.agingcare.com/questions/how-should-i-deal-with-false-accusations-from-a-mentally-fit-mean-mom-477399.htm

As I remember, you have the ability too stay away. As you say in the above post, Mom is evil. Stay away, protect yourself. I am sure if she was not your mother you would be walking the other way. Let brother take care of her since he is the golden child.
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Yes. I told my mom she's breaking my heart and making me lose my mind and she said, "Good. You deserve it after the horrible child you were. You've been a b since you were 2 years old."

Some people will never, ever have class no matter what. They're determined to cause pain.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
Those are horrible words. We mustn’t listen to our mothers.
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First of all this is not normal. I would have her checked for a UTI, dementia and ALZ. When my Daddy said these things to me I made a drs appointment and cleared it up right now.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
She has said things like that all my life. This is not new. I’m protecting myself.
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I doubt it.
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I feel you. I’m in similar situation. Find someone to be your accountability whether it is doctor or social worker. I fear my mom will get me in trouble too. She already lies on me. There has to be a safety plan in action for you. Because a cop or stranger would believe anything said and go straight for elder abuse. I am so sorry your are dealing with this.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
Thanks! And very sorry to hear you’re going through the same.
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No

My main issue is my mom is taking away my autonomy and independance and keeping me from finding my true love

In reality, that is NOT the case and I have chosen to stay complacent by scapegoating my mom when I really need to learn and master the practice of manifestation in order to reach my goals!
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Mikurotoro92 Nov 2022
It is exactly as my neighbor Anita Tressler said
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Sounhappy, how are you doing with your boundaries with mom? You taking care of you?

Prayers for you to protect yourself against her hate.
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sounhappy Nov 2022
Thanks!
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