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So, I am a middle-aged 'only child' of a mother, that has advanced Alzheimer's. My step-dad is her caretaker & is not ready to put her in a facility. He is her POA. Anyway, she was recently swiping at the mirror & said, "to get that woman out her house" & fell backwards on the hardwood floor. She now says she doesn't know how to walk. If you try to move her, she yells out, seemingly in pain. (Side note- when my stepdad & I were out of the room, she scooted out to the room we were in with the walker & walked fine & didn't complain or yell). Just the day before the fall, she was very mobile on her own, no walker involved. Anyway, I have asked my stepdad to get her an X-ray, which he stated my mom absolutely refused to do at the Dr.'s office. I have since reached out to all step siblings for advice/help. I have contacted my parents rep at the local Aging society, who was to call me back after making contact with them. Haven't heard back & it's been a week. No one is saying anything. Also, a little background.. My adult children, myself & step- siblings have told my 86 yr old stepdad for about a year that we feel my mom should be in a home for her health & for the level of care she needs, also to lessen his burden. He says he wants her at his side still. He was just in ER with some health issues & if he declines, how is he going to care for her & himself? Any options here? I feel like my hands are tied. Very stressed here. Thank you in advance!!
Your stepfather is the POA. I would offer support in looking in on Mom without enabling the poor decision of their not getting care.
To be honest (and perhaps this comes of being now 82 with an 84 y/o partner) your mother chose your stepfather as husband and as POA. Whether in choosing otherwise (let us assume you, yourself) she would now be "safely" "in care" and live a few years longer? Perhaps. But in attempting a guardianship fight with her hubby you would almost certainly: A) lose B) invest money needlessly C) if you won be in for a world of woe with an uncooperative mom and hubby D) add little to your mom's life. Safety issues such as falls, etc. will continue
I cannot see the stress of this being worth it for any reason. I do like that you reached out to step family. I suggest you all work out a check in schedule and keep in touch with one another.
I hope as a new member you will fill in your profile for us, which will help if you plan to stay on the site at all. I certainly do wish you all the best.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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I would offer support in looking in on Mom without enabling the poor decision of their not getting care.
To be honest (and perhaps this comes of being now 82 with an 84 y/o partner) your mother chose your stepfather as husband and as POA. Whether in choosing otherwise (let us assume you, yourself) she would now be "safely" "in care" and live a few years longer? Perhaps. But in attempting a guardianship fight with her hubby you would almost certainly:
A) lose
B) invest money needlessly
C) if you won be in for a world of woe with an uncooperative mom and hubby
D) add little to your mom's life. Safety issues such as falls, etc. will continue
I cannot see the stress of this being worth it for any reason.
I do like that you reached out to step family. I suggest you all work out a check in schedule and keep in touch with one another.
I hope as a new member you will fill in your profile for us, which will help if you plan to stay on the site at all. I certainly do wish you all the best.